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Correct Attitudes to the Spiritual Master
« on: November 11, 2012, 10:36:36 AM »
The actual method of cultivating the correct attitudes towards the spiritual master is to practice contemplative meditation upon the guru's good qualities and the beneficial effects that he or she introduces into one's life. By reflecting again and again on the great kindness the guru performs, a confidence suitable for spiritual training under him or her is born. This process of reflecting on the role of the guru is important in the beginning as well as in the higher practices, for as we sit in contemplation we become faced with a stream of reactions, which if understood at an early stage can clear the mind of much doubt, confusion and superstition.

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Re: Correct Attitudes to the Spiritual Master
« Reply #1 on: November 11, 2012, 01:12:42 PM »
We spend our entire life seeking people and situations that are favorable to our [self-conditioned and self-cherishing] mind and similarly we avoid people who challenge us and conditions that put us into discomfort. Over time we become masters at developing a cocooned life in which we are not exposed to conditions that can force us to transform our thoughts, attitudes and behavior. In that cocoon, our ego, self centeredness, our delusions and all our afflictions are safe. But the whole purpose of undertaking a spiritual path is to create a change for the better and the agent of that change is our Guru, the spiritual master.

The Guru will reflect our negativities and put us into situations that we are not familiar with or comfortable in, and in so doing, zero in on areas in our lives where we have to correct. Under normal circumstances, we would run away as we have done our whole life. But if we are serious about our spiritual practice, we must completely regard the spiritual master as (i) the last bastion that can prevent our poisoned self from going into the lower realms, on the one hand, and (ii) the battleground on which we need to fight all the obstacles that is stopping our spiritual development, on the other hand.

In other words we become conflicted.

The only way to "survive" this, is to meditate on the qualities of our spiritual master and on all the goodness and kindness the spiritual master has bestowed on us. We must focus our minds on what he or she wishes for us to accomplish, understanding at all times that everything the master does for us and to us, is out of compassion and for our own good. Within that understanding and based on a deep trust of the spiritual master, we begin to face our own demons.

The habit of focussing on the good qualities of the teacher, once habituated, extends to how we see others as well and we begin to focus on the positive qualities of those around us instead of picking on faults.

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Re: Correct Attitudes to the Spiritual Master
« Reply #2 on: November 11, 2012, 02:07:25 PM »
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The actual method of cultivating the correct attitudes towards the spiritual master is to practice contemplative meditation upon the guru's good qualities and the beneficial effects that he or she introduces into one's life.

In the Lamrim, we are told that the spiritual guide is someone who possesses ten special qualities. These are: (1) a mind that is controlled by the practice of moral discipline.
(2) a mind that has become peaceful and undistracted through the practice of concentration.
(3) reduced self-grasping through the practice of wisdom.
(4) greater knowledge than the disciple.
(5) delight in teaching Dharma.
(6) a wealth of scriptural knowledge.
(7) a deep and stable realisation of emptiness.
(8) great skill in explaining Dharma.
(9) compassion and love for his disciples.
(10) enthusiasm for teaching Dharma, being free from discouragement or laziness.

It is good to meditate on these qualities as well as the benefits of relying on a spiritual guide in order to develop faith in the spiritual guide. It is said that when the disciple relies completely on a fully qualified spiritual guide, the attainment of enlightenment is easy.   (Geshe Kelsang Gyatso, Joyful Path of Good Fortune)

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Re: Correct Attitudes to the Spiritual Master
« Reply #3 on: November 11, 2012, 02:36:04 PM »
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By reflecting again and again on the great kindness the guru performs, a confidence suitable for spiritual training under him or her is born.

By remembering the kindness of the guru, we will develop faith and respect  for him/her. This is one of the ways to rely on the spiritual guide. The other way is to develop faith that the guru is a Buddha, which is the root of all attainments.

How do we develop respect for our guru by remembering his or her kindness? There are two ways to do this:
(1) Remembering that our spiritual guide is kinder than all the Buddhas. This is because the guru helps us at the time when we need it most, that is, when we are spiritually impoverished. The guru heals and nourishes us with Dharma so that we can develop spiritually. When we reach an advanced stage of our practice, we will be able to receive instructions from the Buddhas directly. Therefore, the guru is kinder than the Buddhas because he or she helps us when we are in the greatest need.

(2) Remembering that the spiritual guide is kinder even than Buddha Shakyamuni. The spiritual guide is kinder because at this moment we are unable to make a direct connection with Buddha Shakyamuni. Therefore it is only through personal association with the guru that we can gain spiritual realisations.

Atisha said: "Every single realisation that we wish to attain depends upon our receiving the inspiration of our spiritual guide." (Geshe Kelsang Gyatso, Joyful Path of Good Fortune)

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Re: Correct Attitudes to the Spiritual Master
« Reply #4 on: November 30, 2012, 01:52:34 AM »
The 50 versus of Guru Devotion

1. Bowing in the proper way to the lotus feet of my Guru, who is the cause for me to attain the state of a glorious Vajrasattva, I shall condense and explain in brief what has been said in many stainless tantric texts about Guru-devotion. (Therefore) listen with respect.

2. All the Buddhas of the past, present and future, residing in every land in the ten directions, have paid homage to the Tantric Masters from whom they have received the highest initiations. (Is there need to mention that you should too?)

3. Three times each day, with supreme faith, you must show your respect to your Guru who teaches you (the tantric path), by pressing your palms together, offering a mandala as well as flowers and prostrating (touching) your head to his feet.

4. Those who hold ordination vows, if (your Guru) is a layman or your junior, prostrate (in public) while facing such things as his scriptural texts in order to avoid worldly scorn. But in your mind (prostrate to your Guru).

5. As for serving (your Guru) and showing him respect, such as obeying what he says, standing up (when he comes) and showing him to his seat - these should be done even by those with ordination vows (whose Gurus are laymen or their juniors). But (in public), avoid prostrating and unorthodox actions (such as washing his feet).

6. In order for the words of honour of neither the Guru nor the disciple to degenerate, there must be a mutual examination beforehand (to determine if each can) brave a Guru-disciple relationship.

7. A disciple with sense should not accept as his Guru someone who lacks compassion or who is angersome, vicious or arrogant, possessive, undisciplined or boasts of his knowledge.

8. (A Guru should be) stable (in his actions), cultivated (in his speech), wise, patient and honest. He should neither conceal his shortcomings, nor pretend to possess qualities he lacks. He should be an expert in the meanings (of tantra) and in its ritual procedures (of medicine and turning back obstacles). Also he should have loving compassion and a complete knowledge of the scriptures.

9. He should have full experience in both ten fields, skill in the drawing of mandalas, full knowledge of how to explain the tantras, supreme faith and his senses fully under control.

10. Having become the disciple of such a protecting (Guru), should you then despise him from your heart, you will reap continual suffering as if you had disparaged all the Buddhas.

11. If you are so foolish as to despise you Guru, you will contract contagious diseases and those caused by harmful spirits. You will die (a horrible death) caused by demons, plagues or poison.

12. You will be killed by (wicked) kings or fire, by poisonous snakes, water, witches or bandits, by harmful spirits or savages, and then be reborn in a hell.

13. Never disturb you Guru's mind. Should you be foolish and happen to do this, you will surely boil in hell.

14. Whatever fearful hells have been taught, such as Avici, the Hell of Uninterrupted pain, it is clearly explained that those who disparage their Gurus will have to remain there (a very long time).

15. Therefore, exert yourself whole-heartedly never to belittle your Tantric Master who makes no display of his great wisdom and virtues.

16. (If from a lack of awareness you have shown disrespect) to your Guru, reverently present an offering to him and seek his forgiveness. Then in the future such harms and plagues will not befall you.

17. It has been taught that for the Guru to whom you have pledged your word of honour (to visualize as one with your meditational deity), you should willingly sacrifice your wife, children and even your life, although these are not (easy) to give away. Is there need to mention your fleeting wealth?

18. (Such practice of offering) can confer even Buddhahood on a zealous (disciple) in his very lifetime, which otherwise might be difficult to attain even in countless millions of eons.

19. Always keep your word of honour. Always make offerings to the Enlightened Ones. Always make offerings also to your Guru, for he is the same as all the Buddhas.

20. Those who wish (to attain) the inexhaustible (state of a Buddha's Wisdom Body) should give to their Guru whatever they themselves find pleasing, from the most trifling objects to those of best quality.

21. Giving (to your Guru) is the same as making continual offerings to all the Buddhas. From such giving, much merit is gathered. From such collection comes the supreme powerful attainment (of Buddhahood).

22. Therefore, a disciple with the good qualities of compassion, generosity, moral self-control and patience should never regard his Guru and the Buddha Vajradhara as different.

23. If you should never tread even on (your Guru's) shadow, because the fearsome consequences are the same as destroying a stupa, is ther need to mention never stepping on or over his shoes or seat, (sitting in his place or riding) his mount?

24. (A disciple) having great sense should obey the words of his Guru joyfully and with enthousiasm, If you lack the knowledge or ability (to do what he says), explain in (polite) words why you cannot (comply).

25. It is from your Guru that powerfull attainments, higher rebirth and happiness come. Therefore, make a whole-hearted effort never to transgress your Guru's advice.

26. (Guard) your Guru's belongings as you would your own life. Treat even your Guru's beloved (family) with the same (respect you show for him). (Have affectionate regard for) those closely around him as if they were your own dearest kin. Single-mindedly think (in this way) at all times.

27. Never sit on the (same) bed or seat (as your Guru), nor walk ahead of him. (At teachings do not) wear your hair in a top-knot, (a hat, shoes or any weapons). Never touch a seat (before he sits down, or if he happens to sits on the ground. Do not) place your hands (proudly) on your hips or wring them (before him).

28. Never sit or recline while your Guru is standing (nor lie while he is sitting). Always be ready to stand up and serve him skilfully in an excellent manner.

29. In the presence of your Guru, never do such things as spit, (cough or sneeze without covering your head). Never strech out your legs when at your seat, nor walk back and forth (without reason before him, and never) argue.

30. Never massage or rub your limbs. Do not sing, dance or play musical instruments (for other than religious purposes). And never chatter idly or speak in excess (or too loudly) within the range of (your Guru's) hearing.

31. (When your Guru enters the room) get up from your seat and bow your head slightly. Sit (in his presence) respectfully. At night, at rivers or on dangerous paths, with (your Guru's) permission, you may walk before him.

32. In the direct sight of his Guru, (a disciple) with sense should not (sit) with his body twisted around, nor lean (casually) against pillars and such. Never crack your knuckles, (play with your fingers or clean your nails).

33. When washing (your Guru's) feet or his body, drying, massaging (or shaving) him, precede such actions with (three) prostrations and at their conclusion do the same. Then attend (to yourself) as much as you like.

34. Should you need to address (your Guru) by his name, add the title "Your Presence" after it. To generate respect for him in others, further honorifics may also be used.

35. When asking for your Guru's advice, (first announce why you have come). With palms pressed together at your heart, listen to what he tells you, without (letting your mind) wander about, Then (when he has spoken), you should reply, "I shall do exactly as you have said."

36. After doing (what your Guru has told you), report (what has happened) in polite, gentle words. Should you yawn or cough, (clear your throat or laugh in his presence), cover your mouth with your hand.

37. If you wish to receive a certain teaching, request three times with your palms pressed together, while before him on your (right) knee. (Then at his discourse), sit humbly and with respect, wearing appropriate clothing that is neat (and clean, without ornaments, jewelery or cosmetics).

38. Whatever you do to serve (your Guru) or show him respect, should never be done with an arrogant mind. Instead you should be like a newly-wed bride, timid, bashful and very subdued.

39. In the presence of (the Guru) who teaches you (the Path), stop acting in a conceited, coquettish manner. As for boasting to others what you have done (for your Guru), examine (your conscience) and discard all such acts.

40. If you are (requested) to perform a consecration, (an initiation into) a mandala, a fire puja or to gather disciples and deliver a discourse, you may not do so if your Guru resides in that area, unless you receive his prior permission.

41. Whatever offerings you receive from performing such rites as (the consecration known as) "Opening the Eyes", you should present all these to your Guru. Once he has taken a token portion, you may use the rest for whatever you like.

42. In the presence of his Guru, a disciple should not act (as a Guru) to his own disciples and they should not act towards him as their Guru. Therefore (before your own Guru), stop (your disciples) from showing you respect such as rising (when you come) and making prostrations.

43. Whenever you make an offering to your Guru, or whenever your Guru presents you with something, a disciple with sense will (present and) receive this, using both hands and with his head slightly bent.

44. Be diligent in all your actions, (alert and) mindful never to forget (your word of honour). If fellow-disciples transgress (what is proper) in their behaviour, correct each other in a friendly manner.

45. If because of sickness you are physically (unable) to bow to your Guru and must do what normally would be prohibited, even without (his explicit) permission, there will be no unfortunate consequences if you have a virtuous mind.

46. What need is there to say much more. Do whatever pleases your Guru and avoid doing anything he would not like. Be diligent in both of these.

47. "Powerful attainments follow from (doing what) your Guru (likes)." This has been said by (the Buddha) Vajradhara himself. Knowing this, try to please your Guru fully with all the actions (of your body, speech and mind).

48. After a disciple has taken refuge in the Triple Gem and developed a pure (Enlightened) motive, he should be given this (text) to take to his heart (how to abandon his own arrogant self-will and) follow in his Guru's footsteps (along the Graded Path to Enlightenment).

49. (By studying the prerequisite trainings of Guru-devotion and the Graded Path, common to both the Sutra and Tantra,) you will become a (suitable) vessel (to hold) the pure Dharma. You may then be given such teachings as Tantra. (After receiving the proper initiations,) recite out loud the fourteen root vows and take them sincerely to your heart.

50. As I have not made the mistake (of adding my personal interpretation) when writing this work, may this be of infinite benefit to all disciples who would follow their Guru. By the limitless merit I have gathered in this way, may all sentient beings quickly attain Buddhahood.


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Re: Correct Attitudes to the Spiritual Master
« Reply #5 on: December 02, 2012, 06:36:58 PM »
In essence,the a guru is the flame who will light many candles ,not a preacher of dogma or exclusivity.Every culture and age has Gurus who stand out as examplary models of behavior,fortitude and spiritual path.They   are completely open and transparent.They belong to nobody and everybody.They have only one goal:to make us like themselves so that we too become a flame lighting other candles.The only thing the ask us is to renounce is our ignorance and lack of understanding.
We need a Guru to show us the way  to recognize our true self by example,spiritual practice.s,or other relevant means.A true Guru is a jemstone.The Guru has been where the disciple is and therefore can show the way.Only the disciple can decide to walk the path with determination.For those looking for a Guru,with the right attitude,you will surely find the appropriate Spiritual Guru.