As unattained, samsaric being that I am, from a samsaric and relative point of view, it is very distressing to have to look at and live the ban on Dorje Shugden. From the same point of view, so much negative karma is generated from so many people for causing suffering to so very many families in that they are split and harmed by their own family and others. In such circumstances, we tend to see the Dalai Lama not as Chenrezig but just another worldly being.
But, there is the absolute truth which I cannot see and understand as yet. (heh heh - see how I aspire?) This can only be apparent to me in the future, so I do not wish to collect negative karma anymore by condemning anyone. I can only support Dorje Shugden practitioners in ways that I know.