Illustrious LineageDagpo Rinpoche's previous incarnations are said to include the main spiritual guide of the Indian sage Atisha, the great Serlingpa of Indonesia and the great 11th-century translator Marpa Lotsawa, one of the pioneers of the Kagyu School of Buddhism in Tibet, as well as several abbots.
Teaching on RebirthRinpoche said that for one to be reborn a human being was indeed very precious and a very rare thing as compared to being reborn into the lower realm such as an animal or an insect. Human beings have virtually unlimited potential of finding solutions to problems. Hence we have a far better capacity to realise happiness than animals.
However, leading a human life is not easy as we still face suffering. To escape from this endless cycle of rebirth, it is important for us to find the root of our sufferings, he said. The root cause is our ego or a very wrong view of ourselves and in order for us to overcome it we have to understand selflessness or the way the self actually exists.
Once you have understood selflessness, you destroy ignorance and achieve enlightenment. As a result you no longer create karma (causes) for rebirth.
So why are monks who are supposedly wise and pure reborn? Why is it that a high priest can even demolish his own head temple? Rinpoche said that not all monks have achieved a true sense of selflessness. They may have studied (Buddhism) to a certain degree but still do not have a direct realisation of selflessness and as long as you do not have it, you are not free from the cycle of rebirth, he said, adding that one who has achieved selflessness need not be a monk but he or she can be a layperson.
Such people can choose to be reborn as a monk, a layperson or even as an animal to be helpful to others, said Rinpoche with a smile.
To overcome anger, Lord Buddha gave as antidotes three forms of patience: Firstly, being patient in relation to the harm that others inflict upon you by understanding the origins of the harm. Secondly, patient acceptance of adversity as the result of karma, by looking at the brighter side; for as Rinpoche explained, every time you face a problem you are experiencing the result of bad karma which means there is one less to get rid of. Furthermore, we must learn not to exaggerate our difficulties. Thirdly, having the patience to persevere and surmount difficulties that arise in spiritual endeavour only then can we become stronger."If we fight the suffering, it might only make things worse for us. Lord Je Tsongkhapa said that if we cultivate patience, our joy will never decline and, in this lifetime, we will constantly be happy. Also, we will be able to close the door to lower rebirth in the next life."As for the disadvantages of not practising patience, Rinpoche said that anger destroys our virtues. An instance of anger towards a superior being (such as a bodhisattva) can destroy aeons of merit that we have generated in the past through the practice of generosity and patience. And we do not know which person is a boddhisattva as he does not wear a nametag?.
So Rinpoche explained that a harmful person is actually un-free in the sense that he is controlled by his mind and in turn his mind is controlled by his disturbing mental factors. So he is like a slave to a slave! That is why it is incorrect to feel anger towards a person who has harmed us.