More than 3 years since this subject was posted by Namdrol and I replied. Over the last 3 years much has happened except the ban is still not lifted. More protest by the ISC with slogan, "Don't lie" is a constant fixture wherever the Dalai Lama goes in the west. I always wonder, why would a Buddhist group that I respect a lot go out and say the Dalai Lama lied? I know the Dalai Lama did say the Protector is a spirit, a chinese spirit to be exact and also blame the failure of Tibet's independent/autonomy on the Protector. These are lies, but still to protest and led the world see these slogan "Dalai Lama don't lie" was something that piqued my mind. I thought we needed to be diplomatic unless we do not regard him as the real Dalai Lama. And speaking about that, there are slogans of the protestors saying he is a muslim and a fake Dalai Lama. Overall, it is quite a challenge for practitioners of Dorje Shugden, our King and followers of the Dalai Lama's camp.
So, recently, I began to think really deeply about this. My answer came out like this. No Lamas recognized by other high Lamas are fake. On the contrary, ALL LAMAs are highly realized. That means with regard to the Protector issue, the Lamas involved like, Pabongka Rinpoche, both current and previous Trijang Rinpoche and Zong Rinpoches, Ganchen Rinpoche, Geshe Kelsang Gyatso and all the incarnations of the Dalai Lamas are enlightened beings and hence they are all correct, even the "ban" is to benefit. So, in the midst of this chaos, I asked, what can we learn from this? My answer, is our view and how we respond especially from our motivation and practice. We need to practice the Dharma and be kind and compassionate. From this we will gain wisdom.
This my humble thinking.