I like what Zach W wrote about "respectful speech".
Respectful speech will not only reflect well on yourself but also on how much you are practising Dharma. Above all, it also reflects on our own Gurus as we are our Guru's students.
Respectful speech allows us to highlight the wrongful actions but not personalize the attack, i.e. the person.
For example, while protesting is good to raise the awareness of the ban, but instead of placards and shouting, "Dalai Lama is lying" - may be a better way is to say, "Dalai Lama please lift the ban or Dalai Lama please give religious freedom".
Of course, I am speaking merely for myself. Of course, I do realise that some people believe it is completely all right and that they will not get bad karma by saying what they believe is to be true. Hence, they did what they did.
However, I believe that with respectful speech and skill means - it reflects better on oneself, one's Guru and the whole sangha that Buddhism/Dharma is represented by.
I am sure "outsiders" will judge us in the same way we seem to be judging each other in here or out there.
I believe all sides believe that they are benefiting others - be in if you belong in DL's camp, or DS's camp or you believe in HHDL and DS working together for the Dharma. If one didn't believe that they are helping one another, then they may not be as passionate about their cause, even to the point of being very emotional about it.
Well, if all sides do eventual benefit everyone - then it is just a matter of choosing a side that suits you best and respectfully allow the rest to do what they think is best for them. Especially, if they are just following their Guru's instructions.
Nothing we do or think right now can be that pure. As long as we are in samsara, we are stained by the 8 worldly concerns. Our speech, actions, thoughts, etc.
With the closing of the year is coming - another year will end and a new year will begin. We don't have to always argue about our differences, we can focus on our same beliefs which is the great King Dorje Shugden.
We do not need to carry forward any more differences, but focus on what we can do better to serve our Gurus, Protector and the Dharma.
I may not be protesting with you, but I'll gladly print out brochures and distribute them. I'll gladly donate to the Dorje Shugden monasteries and monks. I'll gladly promote this website, the illustrated graphic story of Dorje Shugden and many more.
At least, when we are all doing something instead of arguing, our energies are spent on promoting the Protector, the Dharma and the Lineage. With united and concerted effort, Dharma wins. Our Protector definitely wins.
So, when the Dalai Lama retires or passes away in due time ( sorry to say ) - our Protector's supreme name and holy image have already been widely disseminated everywhere.
When accompanied by our own CONSISTENT "respectful" speech and actions, we reflect that greatness of our Protector's practice. All doubts will then be clarified and corrected.
Have a wonderful weekend ahead, everyone.
May peace and harmony be with all of you.