I am just starting my spiritual journey and reading the discussions in this forum are very helpful. For a beginner like me, reading the different perspectives is an mind-opening experience.
It's like the movie: Matrix. If we choose the blue pill, we remain we remain in the blissful ignorance of illusion. If we choose the red pill, we see the truth, free of our delusions. Sometimes, it is a painful experience. But I believe it is a pain worth experiencing. Yup, I agree with DSFriend. It is a step by step process. We need to break through step 1 fully, before we can proceed further. There is no by-passing here.