Sorry, reformatted.....
I would rather follow HH Trijang Rinpoche's advice rather than my own deluded thinking for to me - HH Trijang Rinpoche is a Buddha.
Some more thoughts (request to the moderators - can we please have a facility for editing posts? :-D thanks)
Buddha said that we should not believe what he says simply because he's called Buddha, instead he encouraged us to use our critical faculties to discern the truth.  The anti-Shugden argument is probably much the same - "the Dalai Lama says that Dorje Shugden is a spirit and we should not do the practice.  I would rather follow HHDL's advice than my own deluded thinking because HHDL is a Buddha".  Blind faith is better than no faith, but it's not reliable.
The Dalai Lama didn't believe Trijang Rinpoche about the nature and function of Dorje Shugden but made his own investigation........Oh!  shame he came to the wrong conclusion, but the point remains:  we need to think for ourself and have valid reasons for everything we believe.
Trijang Rinpoche's views are deeply persuasive for me, too, but you have to read what he actually says.  This is from 
Music Delighting the Ocean of Protectors  page 125:
There is something I must mention at this point.  As stated above, the Great Fifth Dalai Lama and Omniscient Panchen Rinpoche were like Lords of the Teachings. In actuality  they  are,  respectively,  Arya  Avalokiteswara  and  Buddha  Amitabha emanating  in  the  human  form  of  special  holy  beings.  Yet  this  Lord  of  Dharma Protectors  exhibited  an  ability  to  harm  or  destroy  them,  and  such  events  as  the Great  Fifth,  having  been  able  to  summon  this  Dharmapala  to  be  burned  with intense samadhi but not accomplish it, also shows that the enlightening activities of  these  great  masters  and  those  of  this  Dharmapala  are  each  as  mutually universal  and  pervasive  as  the  other.  But  some  who  are  narrow  minded,  not understanding this point, consider this Dharmapala to be like an ordinary worldly being  and,  with  supposed  faith  in  the  Dalai  Lama  and  the  Panchen  Lama, disparage him; or else they indeed admire this great Dharmapala but criticize the Dalai Lama or Panchen Lama. Using either one as a reason not to admire the other and  speaking  badly  about  either  in  any  way  is  the  conduct  of  an  ordinary  being who, under the influence of attachment and hatred, just tries to help friends and hurt  enemies
Trijang Rinpoche is talking about the 5th Dalai Lama, not the Dalai Lama 
per se.  Did Trijang Rinpoche say "don't lose faith in the Fourteenth Dalai Lama"?  As I said before, he also didn't say that we couldn't tell the Fourteenth Dalai Lama that he's wrong and has made a mistake.  I keep seeing this quotation on the internet:
HH Kyabje Trijang Rinpoche gave this advice:“Don’t lose faith in His Holiness – don’t lose faith in Dorje Shugden.”
http://dorjeshugden.com/wp/?p=134but can someone give a qualified source for this quotation, or is it just something that someone heard and interpreted in a particular way?  We can't rely on hearsay.  Some people claim that Trijang Rinpoche abandoned his practice of Dorje Shugden towards the end of his life, or that Je Pabongkhapa and his followers destroyed images of Padmasambhava in Kham, but we can't rely on false rumours.  Anybody can claim "so-and-so said this..." but where's the evidence?
There is a saying that for evil to flourish in this world, all that needs to happen is for good people to do nothing.  I think blindly accepting the Dalai Lama's position on Dorje Shugden and his actions, somehow believing this is correct and even using scripture to justify not saying anything is a dangerous position to be in.