To be honest I find the whole thing of calling Khadro la as a dakini amusing. How can a dakini be a medium in the first place? Just because she is a sincere practitioner, she is not a dakini..yet. It is only when she displays more results as an actual dakini like the way Niguma, Sukhasiddhi, Yeshe Tsogyel and Maching Lapdron did that I would really consider her as a real Dakini that has appeared from Tibet to heal Lama Zopa or do whatever that dakini is supposed to do. Dakinis by nature are very direct and very sarcastic when it comes to the Dharma but Khadro la does not exhibit any of that. I do admit that Khadro la does have some capabilities to heal but i wouldnt go that far to call her a dakini yet because there are so many other female practitioners such as Thutben Chordon who deserve the title far more than she does as she has done so much more compared to Khadro la, with respect, when it comes to spreading the Dharma and teaching them. What has Khadro la done besides healing Lama Zopa and taking trance? I dont think that's a lot to be 'proud' off. It would suffice to say that she is a teacher in her own right and she healed Lama Zopa...but dakini is a far stretch.
The real way to heal Lama Zopa is to mend broken samaya and stop the ridiculous practice of politicking to secure FPMT's place as the most official and most authoritative Dharma center in the region. There is nothing wrong with being in such a position, but when everyone puts in all their effort and resources to achieving that and even going to the extent of hurting other lamas and destroying the reputation of other centers and organizations that do not align to their political view, that is too much and what is more is, they are using the Lama's name to do such a thing. Will Lama Zopa need to visit every single of these centers and remove these politicking individuals, or will these individuals stop doing what they are doing and start bucking up and changing? I do wish to see Lama Zopa recover fully, but looking at the students, I need to be realistic....