If you kowtow to the ban and give up on Dorje Shugden because you dont have the b**** to face trouble from the Tibetan Government or the Tibetan community, that's a coward.
If you stick to your guns and publicly announce your allegiance to Dorje Shugden, that's NOT a coward.
So what if you go underground with your practice? Which camp to you fall in?
Methinks that it all depends on your motivation. If you love Dorje Shugden, and you are 110% devoted to him, but you have good reason to go underground, then you are NOT a coward. Motivation begins and ends all things after all! You may wonder what could possibly be good enough reason to not be considered a coward? Here are a few:
If you come out, and this causes the spread of BuddhaDharma in your area to be affected because the community shuns you - then you are NOT a coward if you go underground.
If you come out, and this affects the credibility of your gurus who are in the monastery and not practising, and the Tibetan Govt starts to pressure them because of you, then you are NOT a coward if you go underground.
If you come out, and this affects your monastery because you will be kicked out and can no longer support them eg with fundraising, then you are NOT a coward if you go underground.
nuff said?