“…and our protector Nechung will take care of you and make you more successful and famous than ever... “
Trijang Rinpoche’s past incarnations include pandit ??ntarak?ita, Padmasambhava, Ati?a D?pa?k?ra ?r?jñ?na, Lang-ri Thangpa Dorje Senge, Buddha Je Tsongkhapa, Mönlam Pelwa (i.e. Eighth Ganden Tripa), Mikyö Dorje (eighth Karmapa), Zurchen Chöying Rangdröl (one of the Fifth Dalai Lama Ngawang Gyatso’s principal Masters), Trichen Jangchub Chöpel (sixty-ninth Ganden Tripa), Trichen Lobsang Tsultrim (eighty-fifth Ganden Tripa), and immediate predecessor Kyabje Yongdzin Trijang Dorje Chang Chenpo (assistant and tutor of the Fourteenth Dalai Lama for forty years).
Trijang Rinpoche’s countless accomplishments and attainments of his past incarnations are incomparable. Trijang Rinpoche was already so successful and famous that he does not need further recognition or fame! Every Vajrayana practitioner knows who Trijang Rinpoche is! Trijang Rinpoche is a Buddha. It is absurd to say Nechung, a worldly spirit can protect a Buddha and make Trijang Rinpoche more successful!
"If you give up this deity, myself and all Tibetan people will appreciate it very much..."
Tibetan people especially those who were (and still are) suppressed by the ban on Dorje Shugden will appreciate it very much if there was no ban on Dorje Shugden in the first place. Dorje Shugden practice was transmitted from Trijang Rinpoche to all the Tibetan people. How can the Tibetan people who had received and benefitted from Dorje Shugden practice ask Trijang Rinpoche to give up his practice? No student of Trijang Rinpoche (including HH 14th Dalai Lama) has the authority to stop him from practising Dorje Shugden. Who do these students think they are? It is like telling a Buddha to stop engaging in bodhichitta!
"...If you do not give up this deity, then your monastic career, like receiving the full monk’s ordination and taking Geshe examinations will not be possible..."
Trijang Rinpoche is a Buddha. Do we need to train a fully enlightened Buddha? Even if Trijang Rinpoche is not ordained, he can still train under so many high lamas of today.
“…So I leave it to your judgement."
HH 14th Dalai Lama’s question is very intimidating, unnecessary and irrelevant! From a Guru-disciple relationship’s point of view, it is very disrespectful of a disciple to even raise this question to a guru.
Trijang Rinpoche need not make any decision on whether to abandon Dorje Shugden practice or to pursue his monastic career. The World will always benefit from His Holiness Kyabje Trijang Chocktrul Rinpoche’s presence even if His Holiness is a lay teacher.
"If you give up this deity, myself and all Tibetan people will appreciate it very much and our protector Nechung will take care of you and make you more successful and famous than ever. If you do not give up this deity, then your monastic career, like receiving the full monk’s ordination and taking Geshe examinations will not be possible. So I leave it to your judgement."
From the outset, the whole question seems inappropriate. Like what many others had said in this thread, I feel that there are deeper meanings beneath this question. His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama and Trijang Rinpoche had been working hand-in-hand for the benefit of Dharma in many past lives.
When HH Dalai Lama manisfested as king Trisong Detsen, Trijang Rinpoche was pandit ??ntarak?ita. When Trijang Rinpoche manifested as Ati?a D?pa?k?ra ?r?jñ?na, HHH Dalai Lama was Dromtönpa Gyalwé Jungne. When Trijang Rinpoche was Buddha Je Tsongkhapa, HH Dalai Lama was Avalokiteshvara. When Trijang Rinpoche was Mikyö Dorje (eighth Karmapa), HH Dalai Lama was Gendun Gyatso. When Trijang Rinpoche became Zurchen Chöying Rangdröl, HH Dalai Lama was the Fifth Dalai Lama Ngawang Gyatso. When Trijang Rinpoche was Trichen Jangchub Chöpel (sixty-ninth Ganden Tripa), HH Dalai Lama was Lungtog Gyatso. Finally Trijang Rinpoche was the immediate predecessor Kyabje Yongdzin Trijang Dorje Chang Chenpo who was the assistant and tutor of the 14th Dalai Lama for forty years.
From these relationships that lasted many past lives, both Trijang Rinpoche and HH Dalai Lama are very closely connected. It is impossible that HH Dalai Lama would want to harm or make Trijang Rinpoche’s current spiritual training difficult!