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negra orquida

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Unlearning
« on: April 26, 2012, 03:11:24 PM »
Once a fellow practitioner said, "Whilst learning science is good, it could also be a hindrance or even detrimental to spiritual practice."

Another fellow student said, "Before I learned Dharma, I thought I knew everything.  Now I have to unlearn everything in order to practice Dharma!"

What do you think about these 2 comments?  How could science be good yet detrimental to spiritual practice at the same time? Is science contradictory or complimentary to Buddhism? If we find that we need to "unlearn" certain ways of thinking to learn the correct way of thinking according to Dharma, does that mean that whatever we have been taught was "wrong"?

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Re: Unlearning
« Reply #1 on: April 28, 2012, 03:33:42 AM »
Science and dharma are not contradictory to each other, in fact, science could compliment dharma by proofing it. There are many scientists researching about the existence of 'soul', 'near-death experience', etc. There are countless papers and books proofing that people do remember their previous lives - hence proofing that 'reincarnation' does happen!

Also, with the advancement of technology in medical fields, our lives are prolonged hence have more time to practice dharma!
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Jessie Fong

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Re: Unlearning
« Reply #2 on: April 28, 2012, 07:20:00 AM »
We came into this world with no care - we depended on our mothers for nourishment and other necessities.  We had already learned to be dependent on someone.  As we grew older, we learned to be independent, thus we did not have to be dependent on mum so much - thus started the process of "unlearning".

When growing up we started to mix with different people, forming groups of our own, forming our own opinions based on peer pressure, etc. not knowing what we have learned from there and from them is correct or not.  Thus a habit had been formed.

When we came into Dharma, we find that we have to shed our bad habits - habits that have not been beneficial to ourselves nor to others.  Thus, unlearning again.  This process will go on and on in our life.  I heard from a very senior citizen that we will forever continue to learn until the time we take our last breath.

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« Reply #3 on: April 28, 2012, 10:41:40 AM »
Before science, I would imagine that most religions are based on "faith" and science being the pursuit of "reason" ran contrary to the practice of "blind faith". To that extent, science was contradictory to religious and spiritual practice as it demands reason before it supports faith. To many spiritual practitioners, it is faith that begets "accepted reason".

This great divide of logic and faith in absent in Dharma, the learning and practice of the Buddha's teachings. If Buddhism has experience such a wide acceptance especially in the Western world, it is largely due to the fact that Buddhism is the reconciliation of matter and spirit, of faith and reason and of facts and values.

Both Buddhism and Science believe in a natural law - a certain order of things that follows the rule of cause and effect, or action and reaction. Both strongly believe that nothing is arbitrarily decided.

To answer the question in this post, I doubt if we can "unlearn" anything nor should we. Instead we should reassemble our own thought process to understand and obey logic. Therein, lies the enlightened and scientific mind.

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« Reply #4 on: April 28, 2012, 03:00:30 PM »
I will say that science is base on result of experiment and Buddhist is base on the Dharma (Buddha teaching) which is come from the law of karma ( cause and result ) so Science and Buddhist are complement each other..

Example over than 2,000 years ago Buddha has already mentioned that in a glass there are so many beings there and now science proved it that what Buddha had said is correct.

I do believe that we will be learning until our last day. Not talking about learning in the class, but in our life every day there are so many things happening around us and we get to learn something from that.

Therefore we should make ourself to be an empty pot which are ready to fill in knowledge from study, learning and receive the teaching always. When we make ourself as the pot that already full, it will be very difficult for us to learn or receive any new teaching.
   

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« Reply #5 on: April 28, 2012, 05:10:37 PM »
Isn't unlearning is in every part of our lives be it young or old?  Be it in dharma or secular too. Whether we are in dharma or secular, unlearning is always the process in everyday life if we want to become a better person or if we want to climb the corporate ladder or to become successful entrepreneur.  Unless we want to stay the way we are now, contended with it, not wanting to do more and stay in comfort zone.  Then we are just plain lazy and laid back not wanting to improve.

In my opinion, science is not contradictory to dharma but enriches both ways. As matter of fact, just as what Tammy has pointed out ... science can compliment dharma especially there were scientific researches on the 'soul', near death experience, prodigy factor (reincarnation or rebirth), etc..  "Even science writer Sharon Begley reports in her book (How a New Science Reveals Our Extraordinary Potential to Transform Ourselves) on how cutting-edge science and the ancient wisdom of Buddhism have come together to reveal that, contrary to popular belief, we have the power to literally change our brains by changing our minds."



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« Reply #6 on: April 28, 2012, 07:29:46 PM »
What is Unlearning?
Unlearning is not reframing or refreezing or something along that lines. They all focus on an end state whereas unlearning is about moving away from something rather than moving towards something.

So unlearning is exactly what it says. Intending to let go of what we have already learned or acquired. It is not about right or wrong. It is about being open to and exploring something that lies underneath the judgment, underneath the right and the wrong.


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Re: Unlearning
« Reply #7 on: April 29, 2012, 07:58:25 AM »
Does it really matter if science and Buddhism contradicts each other or is detrimental to your spiritual practice? If we practice spirituality and science is being hindrance to our spiritual success, i dont think science is to be blamed and the underlying problem is not science but rather the practitioner themselves allowed science be be a hindrance for themselves.

Some quotes to share:

"The most difficult subjects can be explained to the most slow-witted man if he has not formed any idea of them already; but the simplest thing cannot be made clear to the most intelligent man if he is firmly persuaded that he knows already, without a shadow of doubt, what is laid before him." Leo Tolstoy

I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation. When I found I couldn't change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn't change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family.

Now, as an old man, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed

"Only the hand that erases can write the true thing". By: 8th century monk, Meister Eckhart

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Re: Unlearning
« Reply #8 on: April 29, 2012, 08:46:31 AM »
Once a fellow practitioner said, "Whilst learning science is good, it could also be a hindrance or even detrimental to spiritual practice."

Another fellow student said, "Before I learned Dharma, I thought I knew everything.  Now I have to unlearn everything in order to practice Dharma!"

What do you think about these 2 comments? 
How could science be good yet detrimental to spiritual practice at the same time?
Is science contradictory or complimentary to Buddhism?
If we find that we need to "unlearn" certain ways of thinking to learn the correct way of thinking according to Dharma, does that mean that whatever we have been taught was "wrong"?

Science "finds out" physical and biological processes and organize them together for a better understanding of them. Sometimes this is used to heal and help, sometimes it is used to destroy.

Example: the apple falls from the tree = law of gravity.
Is the law of gravity wrong?
Do I have to un-learn the law of gravity in order to practice Dharma (maybe I want to levitate...)?

Dharma is not about un-learning the sciences, the worldly knowledge, Dharma is about changing our expectations and perspective, it is about gaining an open mind, it is about looking further and not be satisfied with partial answers, it is about focusing on the others, it is about betterment, it is about the cessation of bias ways of existence.

Example: through complex post-mortem (CSI kindda stuff) we can determine even the reason for the death of an Egyptian mummy dating back to some 3,000 years.
Is that science wrong?
Or is the conclusions we draw from the result of this science wrong, or incomplete?

Ex: The mummy of such Egyptian king indicates that he was stabbed from the back and died of his injuries, that is the reason for death. Science stops there. An historian might extrapolate and try to find the reason for the murder, and even who killed the king. While a Buddhist would continue further and say: the primal cause for the king's death was his karma. This does not mean that he was not stabbed and did not in effect die of his injuries or had enemies in court.

Some may say that science proclaims that there is no life after the death of this body. Science does not proclaim that, for if they do, it is mere superstition to say it and therefore not in accordance with a scientific process requiring a demonstration and a proof. All that can be proved is the death of the biological body.
Yet, we can say that we cannot proof or dis-proof something that does not exist.
Yet something formless cannot be proven by a method relying on the physical and biological only.

Science is not wrong, science is incomplete, science is "work in progress, sorry for any inconvenience caused". What is validated today is questioned tomorrow.
What is wrong is to see science as complete, or as the only mean of understanding of reality, because science is limited by a few things:

1. it is observing a subject that is also the object.
There is no difference between what I see and me, for without me seeing it it does not even exist.
There is no difference between what the scientist observes and the scientist.
Thus the whole idea of science being "objective" is a bias to start with.
In fact, nowadays, scientists themselves agree with that, and they are a step ahead of most of us on this, as we still believe that "I" evolve in a "world" that I am meant to "discover", I travel, I experiment, I try new food, just like if I was a me made of a mind and body that is like travelling in a world that I live in, meeting other me's in the same quest, and we discover things, we discover the law of gravity, we discover that the earth is round, we go to the moon, etc...
Reality is not like that, and the "world" only exist when "I" engage with it.
So much so that at the moment of death, I came to believe that we actually experience the "end of the world", the armageddon. So the next time I meet a lunatic in the street that tells me that the end of the world is near, maybe he is not that lunatic after all. We think that the world exist in such a way that it will continue to exist after we die, mainstream science do think that very much. As Buddhist we see more facets to that, more dimensions.

2. it is limited to the biological and physical.
Does a rainbow exist? Science says no, science says yes, science says it's an optical illusion.
Does it exist?
Does time exist?
Does space exist?
These very things have been the basis for scientific observations for centuries, until quantic science gave a kick to the whole thing... Science is a work in progress, therefore not an ultimate and comprehensive method to understand and deal with reality.

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Re: Unlearning
« Reply #9 on: April 29, 2012, 09:16:36 AM »
Once a fellow practitioner said, "Whilst learning science is good, it could also be a hindrance or even detrimental to spiritual practice."

Another fellow student said, "Before I learned Dharma, I thought I knew everything.  Now I have to unlearn everything in order to practice Dharma!"

What do you think about these 2 comments?  How could science be good yet detrimental to spiritual practice at the same time? Is science contradictory or complimentary to Buddhism? If we find that we need to "unlearn" certain ways of thinking to learn the correct way of thinking according to Dharma, does that mean that whatever we have been taught was "wrong"?

I don't understand why the fellow student has to unlearn everything in order to practise Dharma. Science is a school of thought for understanding reality. There are empirical evidence to some theories and none for others. So it's an on going process.

Perhaps the unlearning part is that money and relationships give us happiness. We need to convince ourselves that being selfless gives us happiness instead.  So our focus should be on benefiting others all the time and not self indulge. Self indulgence is an act of selfishness. This is the relearning part I can think of.

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« Reply #10 on: April 29, 2012, 12:52:11 PM »
Science just depicts the arrogance of the western world. Those who believe science is the only answer are also arrogant. How many times has science been proved wrong? How many times have scientists though they were right until a new discovery comes about. Im sure a thousand years ago, if you told a scientist that there are other planets, or that the world was round, they would have never believed you. I'm sure that if you told someone a thousand years ago, that everything was made of atoms they would have never believed you. There are still so many discoveries that are yet to be made, yet people choose to believe that science is always right. Science is constantly being corrected, they think they are right, and this is the answer until a new discovery comes along. To this day science has never proved reincarnation, yet there is so much evidence to show that it does exist. One day this breakthrough will be made, and people will say "Oh, they were right all along". Great, just great. Better to have known it all along, why be hindered by people who think they know what is right.

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« Reply #11 on: April 29, 2012, 01:08:25 PM »
I feel that it is illogical to give up science in order to practice Dharma. Everyday of our life is a learning process whether secular or spiritual. Buddhism is based on logic and understanding just like science is base or research and experiment.  In fact, science and dharma compliment each other. There's nothing for us to "unlearn". Whatever we have learned or whatever mistakes we have made is an lesson for us to be a better person. Real dharma practice is the need to transform our minds and get rid of our bad habituation. So this is the "relearning" that we must put effort in.

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Re: Unlearning
« Reply #12 on: April 29, 2012, 01:37:07 PM »
Dear Jeremyg,

I agree with you. A science oriented person often thinks that nothing is correct unless it is validated by scientific methods. This arrogance hinders spiritual growth and training. However, great scientists acknowledge the limitation of science because scientific theories are only true within a fixed parameter and conditions.

In fact, as scientists explore more into scientific frontiers, they can't help but acquiesed to what Buddha already knew 2,600 years ago.

When the dharma student remarked he needs to unlearn everything when he goes on the spiritual path, I would take it to mean that he now needs to keep  a more open mind and let go of ordinary preconceptions/views.

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Re: Unlearning
« Reply #13 on: April 29, 2012, 02:03:57 PM »
Science does not contradict the Dharma... in fact, several scientific findings has proved the Dharma to be true hehe....

However, whether or not science is detrimental to our spiritual practice is debatable. After all, many scientists are atheist (I'm not judging though...), it's not because they're bad people, but being in this field, they tend to be conditioned to be this way due to their environment.

When it comes to unlearning... I have heard of this term used in some occasions, and it's mostly used for mediocre dharma students. Many people, tend to get ahead of themselves... although it is great to seek knowledge, but sometimes seeking the knowledge unmakes a man especially when it's regarding Dharma and we lack the wisdom to contemplate on it. Therefore, unlearning can be applied here when one has certain amount of Dharma knowledge. Because, sometimes (or most of the time...) people gets rather egoistic and when our Guru says something, we go like 'yeah, I know that already' then fail to take it seriously and in the end, fail to put it into practice.

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« Reply #14 on: April 29, 2012, 07:27:40 PM »
Science has saved many lives... science has brought many many good things to the world and has also given Dharma modern means of communicating plus it has given us the conditions for this forum to exist for example.

But science is limited, science is not a method to bring about happiness. Science is merely a method of observation, merely a method of construction for objects and processes, a good method but a gross one at that.

The results it has had though, good and bad, have been so remarkable in the recent years (like the last 100 years) that it has taken a front place in how we get around thinking about existence. We got deluded as a society thinking that science can solve all our problems, and we gave up the spiritual, as if they were contradictory or even opposite.

But I believe that science and spirituality are not contradictory for as long as science is not projected as superior than spirituality, or as a demonstration of an inadequacy of spirituality with reality. Because if we do, then of course, we find there is a bias, there a worm in the apple.

Science is not THE answer, it is only a method of research, and there is no need to give it up to practice spirituality, what needs to be given up is ignorance, not science!!!!