For many in the West, individualism is the focus. The focus is on "me first" then "I will be successful". We were taught to respect but often times it is highly conditional. If there's nothing we see we can benefit from or qualities that resonates with us then we find ourselves not respecting them as much.
The Buddhist philosophy teaches that all beings have the Buddha potential in all of us. Now just knowing this should make us take a step back in hurting each other and to have some respect that we all have something special in us, some good even though we may not immediately see those qualities.
Tibetan Buddhism takes this so much further that Guru Devotion becomes pinnacle in our practice for all that is good to arise, to be cultivated, to open up. We cultivate a mind to have high respect for our teacher, to see and meditate on the qualities of enlightenment in our teachers and never waver in serving our teachers.
There are not that many examples in the lay community embodying this quality compared to the ordained communities towards their Guru. Ajeka, a lay person, living in this day and age embodies this quality. Because of his Guru Devotion, eventhough his Guru is no longer with him, he remained steadfast and single minded in serving him.
In serving his Guru, he has inspired 2000 people to use their lives for a higher cause to build holy images and monastery for many monks to live, study, debate, practice. If not because of Ajeka, these 2000 people and their families would most probably just live their whole lives taking care of their animals, their families, look for food, keep warm in the harsh weather because this is all that they know off. This example is not that different from ours in developed countries really.. where we spend our whole live taking care of our careers, families, pay crazy amount for good food, keep the peace by conforming to what society expects of a modern, successful, intelligent person. That's all fine but would be much better if whatever energy we have spent on is for a cause that will outlive us...positively.
This quality is beyond the respect that I grew up with. This devotion to his teacher did not cripple him but made him instead to be an extraordinary person.