Hi Beggar,
Very interesting points. I would say though, that if you combine your last sentence with what you're saying in the example about the karma of a snake, you see that out of love and devotion to the Dalai Lama people have acted and continue to act very inappropriately whether directly or indirectly instigated by the advice from the Dalai Lama regarding Dorje Shugden followers. One of way too many examples is what took place in NYC with 3000 very angry Tibetans descending on 800 peaceful protesters at the direct instigation of the Dalai Lama telling them to stop these people, them taking pictures of the Tibetans participating in the peaceful protest then making flyers with their pictures and encouraging violence and ostracism even in America. So childish, and really, like I said earlier, so strange that so-called "Buddhists" think it's justified to do this shit. Like you say though, they totally believe what they're doing is virtuous and right and they're "doing what their Guru tells them". From the pov of a general sense of devotion to the Lama, sure, not much difference between the two practitioners, BUT, from the pov of devotion based in wisdom and common sense and the quality of actions that follow, a very big difference.
Also, though they may regard their actions as virtuous, the fact there is intense anger, aggression, resentment, and actions clearly contradicting the Dharma and common sense about religious and human rights shows that they are quite different when compared to Group B. This is generally speaking of course, as I said, it is not completely black and white and even Buddhists peacefully protesting can have many delusions in their mind. The real line of difference is drawn where mind starts translating into verbal and physical actions: Group B, violent, Group B, peacefully asking some very logically valid points of the Dalai Lama.
Encouraging others to respect the Dalai Lama's wishes regarding Dorje Shugden seems virtuous, but it contributes to great non-virtue and schism in the international Buddhist community and destroys the reputation of holy Dharma. Making great effort to continue encouraging others to have a negative view of Dorje Shugden during talks or through writing seems virtuous, but it is really creating a culture of slander and schism in the international Buddhist community. It isn't as simple as 'we're just encouraging people not to rely on this Protector', it is proactively preventing harmony.
I would think that as practitioners, Lamas, and politicians with the welfare of others in their hands, we would be extremely concerned about the reputation of the BuddhaDharma and its community, not in the worldly sense, but out of a deep love, compassion, and wisdom that knows that a good reputation makes it much easier for people to develop faith and respect, and thereby enter progress on and complete the path to permanent freedom from this nightmare of samsara.
Is it not concerning that things such as the ban and the Karmapa feud have not only destroyed the spiritual lives of many practitioners, but has literally slammed the door in the face of many people who are in need of the medicine of Dharma? I do not mean any disrespect to the Lamas, and of course I cannot comprehend the vast skill of the Buddhas, but conventionally speaking, in light of what I just said, I would feel very ashamed of my actions and make an immediate effort to lift a ban that has cause ONLY suffering; I would accept responsibility for my behavior that is inappropriate by the standards of both Dharma and society and give a deep and sincere apology for what I'd done; and do everything in my power to re-establish a great harmony in the international Buddhist community, simply because I care about people and the reputation of Dharma and its community.
And why can't there be two Karmapas? Is it not possible for a Master who has achieved the 3 bodies of a Buddha to appear in more than one aspect? Wouldn't it be harmonious and give rise to unbelievable benefits and beauty for both sides to have pure view and respect? Is Money and reputation and power really worth the damage this conflict has done. Love is all you need, really. Like Israel and Palestine, just let it go and favor harmony, sincere apologies and so on.
I guess, alas, in samsara there will never be real peace, but we can certainly own up to our inappropriate behaviors and start practicing what we preach. There's nothing more damaging to reputation than to give such holy pure authentic teachings then acting the complete opposite. It's not rocket science my friends. Please change this situation.