Let's imagine this is a personal story.
A long time ago, I used to live harmoniously with my best friend, then we got into a heated argument, we started fighting even, it got really bad, so I left and took refuge in the house of another friend who took care of me, gave me land, gave me a place to live and room to move on.
Today, years have passed and my very friend that I used to fight with comes to visit the house of this friend that gave me refuge and support in time of needs, for decades in fact.
This visit has nothing to do with me, nothing.
Both are good friends, and for them this is a friendly reunion.
So what should I do?
Should I abuse the situation and slap my old friend as he is visiting the house of the friend that gave me so much support over the years?
Or should I give respect to the friend that gave me refuge by taking a back seat, not interfering and giving them understanding and respect, just as I was given?
Of course, this is not the time, this is not the place for me to scream and shout, it is time to give back, give back the respect, give back the support, give back the room!
Isn't it?