so if DL banned Shudgen, why not prove him wrong by behaving ourselves? Thats a smarter idea rather than behaving like people consumed with hate?
I would say that DS-practitioners
do behave themselves incredibly well.
But sadly, merely being silent is not always the good option. There is the old saying that "for the evil to triumph, all it takes is that the good men do nothing". I'm not saying that this or that is evil, but just making a point. If religious traditions are banned by politicians or dictators, while the supporters of those politicians and dicrators roam around oppressing and ostracizing people, then the good men
must speak up. The most worrisome aspect of all this is not that some DS-practitioners go over the top in their speech, but that almost all
non-DS-practitioners remain silent and let the ban with all the ostracism happen while they look elsewhere.
In totalitarian regimes people usually look elsewhere. There is the German saying that "when they came for the Jews, we were silent; when they came for the gypsies, we were silent; when they came for the homosexuals, we were silent; and now that they come to us Christians, who is left there to speak for us?" In Communist regimes the game was, and is, just the same. People are too afraid to speak up, and prefer to look elsewhere. The Tibetan society, and the Tibetan Buddhist social sphere, seem to be similar totalitarian regimes. Nobody speaks up. Everybody looks elsewhere, and hope that 'if only they wouldn't come to get me today'.
But please do remember, that when faced with injustice, if you remain silent you are enabling the injustice to happen; you are then part of the problem, part of the social mechanics of oppression and ostracism. If somebody is throwing a stone, and you just look elsewhere, without even trying to stop the thrower, you are then in cahoots with the stone-thrower, throwing the stone with him. One has to really wonder why the Tibetans, especially the so-called High Lamas, remain silent. Why they do not openly declare what is Dharma, and what is not? Why doesn't the Dalai Lama say to his Dalai-Jugend that stoning monks is against the Dharma? Why didn't the Tai Situpa tell his followers that stone-throwing is not part of following the Karma Kagyu? Well, the answer to that is simply that the Tibetan society is a totalitarian regime. It is not built upon Buddhism, but upon violence and oppression.