After all, the image of monks and nuns shouting, and picketing their supposed leader doesn't look good.
Dear Dharma Defender,
I agree with you there.
While i do respect them for standing up and fighting for a practice and Protector which they feel very passionately about, I don't really agree that standing around in their robes shouting and picketing reflects very well on their own practice, lama, teacher or the very protector they are trying to defend.
I hold that the best way we can really reflect and defend our protector well is by our own ardent practice. The best kind of protest is to be
- even better than others,
- even kinder
- even more compassionate
- more knowledgeable on the subject
- develop the skill to share this knowledge with other people so they can make up their own minds rationally, logically and with the facts.
standing about shouting and picketing and using highly emotive rhetoric doesn't bode well for reflecting the calibre of lamas you are learning from nor the very protector and Buddhas you are practising. It will probably only make the world look at you and think, "THIS is how you do your Dharma practice? THIS is what it means to be spiritual? I'd rather not then, thanks."
Sure, I understand the importance of NOT hiding the facts and the importance of telling people what is really going on - how the ban of DS has had a terrible, devastating and very damaging effect on thousands of people around the world. This website alone highlights so much of what is really going on behind the scenes. But we can provide the information factually, provide
as much information as we can and encourage people to think for themselves instead of stuffing it down their throat that DS is bad / Dalai Lama is bad and getting emotional / belligerent / angry / offensive about it.
I met many DS lamas before I even knew about the DS ban! (I was very, very new to Dharma then). These Lamas never spoke about politics, they exuded only kindness, compassion, care and everything that the Dharma has taught us to embody and practise. They practised DS but it wasn't a big, central, political ISSUE to talk about. They just did their practices and continued to teach. DS was an important part of their teachings, practices and lineage but it wasn't the ONLY THING they focused on.
When I found out later that *gasp* they were DS practitioners, I thought to myself that if Gurus / people like this are DS practitioners and they do and teach this practice, then it cannot be a bad thing. Hearing all the rhetoric against DS thereafter was not convincing at all because I had seen and experienced for myself what a DS practitioner is really like.
If we practise like these lamas do and really uphold what DS is about, that is the best way, I believe, of shutting up the anti-DS perpetrators and inspiring others to also hold DS as sacred as we do.