A reminder too of the forum's rules, short and simple: We promote and value HARMONY. Please do not post anything negative about any lamas, sects, deities or anyone.
yah I think I never did.....
What I certainly don't appreciate is when it becomes "fun" to do for the sake of just arguing or wanting to be right.
I'm afraid you will just have to deal with that with all the dharma means at your disposal
"Attack what I see to be miserable views"... it's exactly that - WHAT YOU SEE to be miserable views.Whether they are "miserable" or not is besides the point. That's your interpretation...
correct
and already you are taking a judgmental high ground that no one has the right to here.
not at all the case, completely made up assertion. I feel everyone is welcome here.
You are making things personal now; note your choice of words: to attack? I don't believe this is what the forum is about, as is clearly stated above. It's about a healthy debate, gaining understanding (even of the things we don't agree to).
attacking someones
view precisely
isn't personal. I I do feel I am gaining an increasing understanding of many views I disagree with here.
All of us have the right to our points of view;
I am sure I couln't agree more
we could even agree to disagree and have completely opposing views. But to start jibing at each other, mocking, being sarcastic or ironic about what someone may hold seriously as their beliefs just doesn't contribute towards a harmonious environment - how can it??
It's just a form of debate. Moreover, as i have stated, I am not mocking anyone personally, just mistaken views. If a view that someone holds seriously as a belief is mocked, they should defend it. If their view is reasonable, they will win thorugh, or at least clarify the situation. If someone has a racist belief, for example, and are insulted by my mocking of that view, what can be done? I don't think respecting their view is the way to go.
Think about whether a comment for or against a view is actually contributing information, knowledge or education to the topic at hand. Or does the comment just argue for the sake or arguing because:
1) you find it "miserable"
rebutting a miserable (read:incorrect and deleterious) view does contribute information, knowledge and education to the topic at hand
2) you personally aren't convinced of that view / don't like that view
I always represent my own views, perhaps they will change in the future.
3) it's "fun" to just stir things up
You have my sincere promise that I do not and will not create havoc here "just for fun." I do not actually find that fun. What I
do find enjoyable is refuting view I disagree with, somethimes using various rhetorical devices, including irony. If people get all riled up about it, i don't mind that at all, it makes for a better debate. We should refrain form intentionally hurting others and name calling etc.
No matter how much we may agree or disagree with someone (or a group of people) on the forum, remember that it's not just the people who post who may read these posts. With the thousands and thousands of people logging onto the website, I am sure a large percentage also visit the forum and read to gain more understanding of the practices and teachings. Don't forget them - how does anything we say add to their knowledge and learning?
I hope so, and i am glad that they see a diversity of opinion here.
How does making sarcastic, ironic, jibing little one-liners add to someone's education? Or will it just make them leave with the impression that this is how Buddhists "debate" and put each other down to make a point?
As I have said, I am not putting anyone down. Outside of that, I imagine someone who appreciates a good acerbic style will have their education added to, as well as those who are mature enough to try to understand the content rather than judging the debate by their own personal tastes in debate style.
cheers HD