said like a true practitioner. Thank you Helena dakini!
This is very true - for how many times have I come across people who have told me they don't want to have anything to do with dorjeshugden because they are turned off by seeing and hearing people speaking badly against the dalai lama; then there are people who are turned away from the dalai lama because they also see how badly dalai lama's students behave. There are people who are turned off religion completely because they see the actions of extremists in all different religions around the world. This problem of bad behaviour is not specific just to buddhist or ds practitioners!
we are the best advertisers of this great "product" we are promoting to the world - our practice. So if we can't show any good result from the product, what are we advertising. People don't want your product if it makes you a nastier and more unpleasant person to be with.
I think you are setting a very good example helena and showing the way towards a peaceful future. If your example is anything to come by, the future of DS practice and Tsongkhapa's holy lineage is a bright, beautiful one!
thanks for being a beacon of peaceful light in these uncertain times.
yours, beggar
This is another post that I find it worth resurrecting. Yes, as Dorje Shugden practitioners, we should really be more careful of our conduct and it should really reflect Dorje Shugden and the Gelug tradition and philosophies well. It will not be a good thing if our conduct cements the wrong views that people have against Dorje Shugden practitioners, that they are rude, aggressive and they hate the Dalai Lama and these are not the actions of Buddhists at all. By creating the wrong impression of Dorje Shugden in the minds of people, we are actually doing something counter productive: we are turning people away from Dorje Shugden as opposed to bringing them to Dorje Shugden. Thus, we of this forum should always be mindful of our body, speech and mind, keeping in mind that we not only represent our Gurus and Buddhists in general, but also Dorje Shugden as well, which is why we have to be even more kind, even more compassionate and even more subdued than non-practitioners. With these results, nobody can say that Dorje Shugden is bad anymore.
Humans are social creatures, and they learn the most not from words on paper but via live examples and actions. This is the reason why reading about tantra and being taught tantra by a fully qualified teacher has huge differences, whereby someone who learns it from reading alone cannot get any results no matter how much he or she practices, but someone who receives direct instructions and training from a fully qualified teacher can gain results from Tantric practice, because the teacher is a living example of the teachings and therefore the impression of the teachings in the mind of the practitioner is stronger. Similarly, if Dorje Shugden practitioners show great spiritual progress and act many times kinder, braver and stronger than the anti Dorje Shugden people, it will shut them up and it will shut CTA up as people will wonder how can such wonderful people possibly be evil.