I still don't really understand why some seem to think it is so bad for people to want a quick fix or a solution to some supposedly mundane, worldly problem. That's the very nature of our whole existence isn't it - samsara! Suffering! all the kinda s**t we get ourselves into and which we then try to get out of. It is totally unrealistic to expect that everyone coming into Dharma or even surfing onto this website is some high level, unattached, unworldly, sincere practitioner who wants to study the lamrim and gain great attainments. For some people, they can't even grasp what attainments mean - they are just trying to get through the day, feed their family, mend a broken heart, etc
I don't think we should belittle these people who are looking for help, no matter how "trivial" their problems may seem to be. The truth of the matter is that all our problems are just as big or just as trivial as each other (depending on how you look at it). So it is really quite ridiculous (and quite arrogant) of us to say, "oh, let's not focus on those who are just looking for quick fix solutions to family/money/relationship/career etc Suffering is suffering and a true dharma practitioner wouldn't discriminate between the levels of suffering. Dorje Shugden helps us all, so why is it that DS practitioners say, "oh we shouldn't cheapen the practice to just one of a quick fixes but we should only focus on the lamrim".
You can't begin to talk about the lamrim, the three poisons, purification, samsara, mind transformation etc etc yet until you help people get to a place where they are comfortable and open to learn. Their minds are so preoccupied now with whatever problems they are going through so no matter how much you bang on about the lamrim to them, it won't help them. It may even turn them away because after the lecture, they feel you are still not helping them with their problems. So help them with whatever they need first and then show them a different way. Feed the hungry man first, and when he's full and well, teach him how to fish. He's not gonna want to learn how fish when he's keeling over in hunger and starving to death!