Just to share some interesting extracts I read from The Dance of 17 Lives: The Incredible True Story of Tibet's 17th Karmapa (By Mick Brown)
1. While theoretically the designation tulku would suggest that someone had been recognised as the direct incarnation of a specific person, in fact this description applied only to a relatively small number of high incarnates, those who were acknowledged to have attained the highest bhumis, or stages of awakening…
2. In yet other cases, a child who was discerned to have particularly promising qualities might be named as a tulku simply to fulfil a certain religious or social position – to give them a role to live up to, as it were...
3. The tulku system was highly elitist. The recognition procedure was essentially a secret one, the system trusting to the wisdom and judgement of the lamas who were making the choice. Yet the validity of the newly recognised incarnate ultimately depended on public approval. Rumours would quickly spread about the signs and wonders that had attended the birth of a special child, the reputation of the family as spiritual practitioners, and also of the lama who had made the recognistion. And a tulku’s authority ultimately depended on his spiritual practice.
4. Someone who failed to fulfil his potential, and who showed himself to be greedy, self-serving, venal or corrupt would quickly lose his standing. Once discovered, the young tulku would usually be given up by his family to the care of the monastery to which, it was believed, he had originally belonged. In a culture in which tulkus were venerated above all others, to have one’s son so recognised was regarded as a great honour, and it was rare for a family to raise any objections to their child being taken from them…