oh, my brothers and sisters
you are like abused wives, defending your husband, forgiving him his violence for the food he brings to your table and the clothes on your back. "do not criticise him! you don't know the REAL man - he is good and kind. even when he beats me and beats our children, in truth he knows best - it is for our own good."
you fear bringing shame on your family so you keep quiet. you lack confidence and feel sure that you must be in the wrong and that there must be a love, deeper than you can understand, behind his kicks and punches.
you are like prisoners with Stockholm syndrome.
you blame anyone who points out: "this isn't right - those bruises are NOT the result of kindness." you cover the bruises of your children and adopt a humble, serene attitude and accuse your friends of anger or jealousy towards your abuser whenever they speak against him.
my heart cries. it's unbearable to me to see this.
STAND UP! for the sake of our abused children. SPEAK OUT!
please, please STOP twisting holy Dharma to justify your acquiescence!
it is NOT the love of her husband that prevents an abused wife speaking out, nor is anger necessary to take action against that husband. those who criticise him are NOT necessarily angry with him, or lacking in virtue or understanding.
protesting may not be the best method, for sure - now it seems is the time for a more reasoned, factual stance. but a stance we must take! we MUST criticise the actions of the Dalai Lama while he still has the power to rescind the ban. there is no way - no way - the TGIE will rescind it after his retirement or death: it will become unassailably enshrined as holy doctrine. his power to harm will continue even after he dies.
we must break this power NOW.
breaking his power, through speaking out, through publicity, through criticism of the man and his actions - through all appropriate, skilful means - IS LOVING THE DALAI LAMA. it is Dharma. it is loving all living beings. it is protecting the doctrine for the benefit of all. it is what all the Buddhas of the three times and the ten directions want us to do.
allowing him to continue abusing his family, unopposed, is condemning him, his family, and countless, countless living beings, to untold suffering in the future
my heart cries, brothers and sisters, to hear such good and wise people defend such monstrous actions and their perpetrator simply because he has also done good.